Friday, November 8, 2013

Second Marriage




PART 1
In the old days, widowers or widows,divorced were not encouraged to marry again since society was not very supportive. Some people will marry no matter what the society or their religion says. I am narrating the story of a friend who went through this path.
My Christian friend who was working at Trivandrum in Kerala,India and he met a girl in a bus stop. He liked the girl in his first look; later on they meet each other in the bus stop. After a while he approached her asked her name. Her name was Lissy who is also a Christian. Their relationship started to grow and my approached his girl friend’s family. He already knew their family was very rich and they won’t allow their daughter to marry someone from an average family. Initially they opposed the marriage and finally they agreed for the marriage. The marriage happened at Trivandrum and father in law helped them to buy a villa nearby the city.  Six months after the wedding, Lissy experienced some stomach pain and she was given some pain reliever by the doctor. Her pain became worse; the doctor found out that she is suffering from Cancer. She was given Chemo therapy and cancer disappeared for few months. After few months ‘Cancer returned again. The doctor tried another attempt for a surgery; he saw the cancer was spreading and it was too late. The husband was notified that she may not survive more than six months.  Husband brought his dying wife to his home and took care the last days of her life. She died after three months of suffering, both families provided support.
Almost three months after the funeral, the husband returned all the Gold ornaments back to his wife’s family but they did not take her cloths which he donated to some homeless women. One day evening, the husband a call from his brother, his brother said “You act weird now days, you used to call every week in the past, now a days you are not calling us any more, you need to move on with your life, You please come next weekend over here and spend few days with us”. His brother was only a year difference and is very bonded since their childhood. The husband agreed and he decided to visit hometown. It was during monsoon season and during a heavy raining day he reached his home. The brother was waiting for him and his aged parents as well. He visited several relatives in the next day; they all showed sympathy towards him and advised him not to marry too soon.
Next day was Sunday, the brother told the widower “If you do not mind, we can visit a girl’s house, I already communicated to their family, and they know our family.” He further explained, you are going to meet a woman who was divorced two years ago. She married to a bank manager three years ago and she did not know that her husband was an alcoholic. Her family made a surprise to their daughter’s house and realized her pathetic life. They took her back to their house and filed for divorce. Alcoholic husband came drunk for the court hearing; the judge easily approved their divorce.
To be continued

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